Tue 11 Apr 2006
The Best Retirement Question I’ve Ever Heard
Posted by coglethorpe under Net Worth
I recently read The Number: A Completely Different Way to Think About the Rest of Your Life by Lee Eisenberg, which I found only because I confused it with a different book called The Number in Mark Cuban’s blog. It was a pleasant mistake, because I completely enjoyed the book. And I enjoyed it for a reason that - strangely enough - has nothing to do with numbers.
The Number is an exceptional book because it takes a fresh, entertaining look at an otherwise dull subject. Rather than pour over endless calculations, including the obligatory compound interest graph, Eisenberg takes the reader on a trip to “the rest of of your life.” His style is engaging and conversational which is likely helpful to people who find themselves yawning when subjects like 401(k) accounts come up.
The fact is, you can probably fit the part about numbers from The Number, in one chapter. What sets the book apart is that it makes one think about more than just how “big” of a number (in other words, your net worth) you would need to retire. One part contains a description of an exercise a retirement planner put his clients through. He started by asking people what they would do if they retired. Then he asked what they would do if they knew they only had 5-10 years to live. Then he asked the key question. The planner asked:
If you only had 24 hours left to live…
The reader then paused, perhaps intentionally, to give me a chance to think up an answer. I instantly thought “I would spend the entire time with my wife and kids.” Then the reader finished:
…what would you have missed?
That took me in an entirely different direction. I had to think, what have I missed? If I had a sufficiently large “number,” what would I do? Having a massive net worth isn’t just about golf (ok, for most people) fine wines and the life of idle rich. As much as I dream of getting up to play 18 every day, then following it with hours of VH1’s fine programming and a nap, I know I’d get sick of it - after a month or two.
I have part of an answer. I’ve found that I enjoy writing. If I could write in a way that really helps people, I’d have it made. In fact, that’s part of why I started this website. I don’t give my writing high marks, but I have twenty years before my number is retirement-sized to get better. I also have twenty years or so to come up with a better answer.
But enough about me. What’s your answer? What would you have missed if today was your last day? Feel free to let me know by leaving a comment.











April 12th, 2006 at 8:14 pm
What a thoughtful contribution for the Financial Reflections community. George Kinder is the planner you referenced above - the one who came up with the 3 Questions that Eisenberg details in THE NUMBER book. Kinder is widely considered to be the “father of life planning”. He is also a CFP with 30 years experience advising clients.
Anyone looking to balance money and meaning in their life would do well to work with a Registered Life Planner (Kinder’s organization trains and certifies them). There are in fact over 650 life planners listed on Kinder’s site, http://www.kinderinstitute.com. I know because I’m working with one of them, know George Kinder personally and have taken his 7 Stages of Money Maturity workshop (as well as having read his book by the same name).
If today were my last day, I would have missed seeing my kids grow up. I’m going to put them to bed and give them an extra dose of hugs and snuggles now.
Financial Reflections replies: Thanks for dropping in. I’m glad you enjoyed the post. While money is important, there’s far more to “The Number” than meets the eye.
April 21st, 2007 at 9:52 am
I am retired. Although I am taking out 5.1% of my savings each year to live, my net worth keeps going up because I am invested 41% in stocks. Is it OK to take 5.1% out or should I cut it back to 4%.
Thanks in advance for your answer.
Financial Reflections responds: Judi, that’s a question for you to discuss with a financial planner. I wish you the best in your decision!